“Forgiveness is having given up all hope of having had a better past.” ―Anne Lamott, Operating Instructions I took one last look at the ripped-up kitchen covered in dust, shut the door on the sounds of saws, hammers and boom box, and walked toward the car with baby and toddler in tow. It was the Read More
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Life is Suffering, Just not for my Kids
The Buddha said “Life means suffering”, but every mother thinks, “just not my kids, leave them out”. When my children were growing up, my first and immediate response to thier physical or emotional pain was, of course, to prevent or cure it. As they grew older there were more hurts that I couldn’t prevent and Read More
Criticism—Cooling the Hot and Prickly
I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. –Bill Cosby Why is it that as soon as you have a child, the world thinks you are fair game for criticism? From the time your belly rounds out, total strangers feel compelled to advise, correct and redirect. Read More


